Properties of Healing

There are certain properties to healing that just are.  The deep desire to heal.  The intention to heal.  The action(s) taken.  And the commitment to continue taking the action(s) necessary.  Healing never occurs vicariously or through another.  It does not occur through our support of another or their support for us.  Healing only occurs when we take action on our own behalf.
You have to be very cautious that you didn't fall into traps that would keep you stuck in emotional turmoil unable to continue on to the freedom you so crave.  Those traps are everywhere.  They will always be everywhere, only now you are better at identifying them.
 
Once you learn to trust yourself.  Learn that choices and freedom are within you, not outside of you.  Learn how to identify when you are putting yourself in painful positions. Positions that you then have to find a way to escape from.  Learn never to be lazy about yourself and that if something comes up that is painful, you must take the time and make the effort to learn and understand what was going on within you.  It's never about those on the outside, it is always within us.  Pain is an inner calling.  Resolution is within our own power.  With action, our power grows stronger.  As does our courage...